«And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery.»
Matthew 19:9
📜 The Verse in Different Translations — Matthew 19:9
KJV
«And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery.»
NIV
«I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.»
ESV
«And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.»
📌 Matthew 19:9
🏛️ Historical and Biblical Context
Historically, biblical teachings on divorce reflect the cultural and religious norms of ancient Israel and early Christianity. In the Old Testament, divorce was permitted under certain circumstances, often regulated by Mosaic Law (Deuteronomy 24:1-4). However, God’s original design for marriage, as seen in Genesis 2:24, emphasizes unity and permanence. Jesus’ teachings in the New Testament, particularly in Matthew 19 and Mark 10, reaffirm the sanctity of marriage, stating that divorce is only permissible in cases of sexual immorality. These teachings highlight the seriousness with which God views marriage and the importance of faithfulness. The biblical context also considers the emotional and spiritual impact of divorce, emphasizing reconciliation and forgiveness whenever possible. Throughout biblical history, divorce is presented as a consequence of human sinfulness but also as an area where God’s grace and mercy are available for healing and restoration.
«And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.»
Reinforces Jesus' teaching on the seriousness of divorce and remarriage.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
«And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband…»
Emphasizes the biblical view of marriage permanence and reconciliation.
Malachi 2:16
«For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away…»
Highlights God's displeasure with divorce.
Romans 7:2-3
«For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband… So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress.»
Discusses the binding nature of marriage and the implications of remarriage.
Ephesians 5:31
«For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.»
Reiterates the divine intention for marriage as a lifelong union.
💡 Practical Reflection for Your Life
Biblical teachings on divorce remind believers of the sacredness and permanence of marriage as established by God. While the Bible acknowledges that human sin can lead to broken relationships, it consistently points toward reconciliation, forgiveness, and God’s grace. Christians are called to uphold the dignity of marriage, viewing it as a reflection of Christ’s love for the church. When facing marital challenges, believers should seek God’s guidance through prayer, Scripture, and wise counsel. Understanding that divorce is a serious matter, the church should offer compassion and support to those affected, emphasizing God’s mercy and the possibility of restoration. Ultimately, the biblical perspective encourages couples to pursue faithfulness, love, and forgiveness, trusting in God’s power to heal wounds and restore relationships. Recognizing the gravity of divorce, believers are also reminded to approach marriage with reverence, commitment, and reliance on God’s strength to sustain their vows.
🙏 Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, acknowledging the sacredness of marriage and the importance of faithfulness. Lord, You designed marriage to be a lifelong union rooted in love, commitment, and mutual respect. We ask for Your guidance in our relationships, especially during times of difficulty. Grant us wisdom, patience, and grace to forgive one another and seek reconciliation. If any are hurting from past wounds or divorce, comfort them with Your mercy and remind them of Your promise to restore and heal. Help us to reflect Christ’s love in our marriages and to trust in Your plan for our lives. Strengthen couples to remain faithful, and empower us to support those facing marital struggles with compassion and understanding. May Your Holy Spirit lead us in truth and righteousness, so that our marriages may glorify You and serve as a testimony of Your grace. We pray all this in Jesus’ name. Amen.
💬 Frequently Asked Questions
❓ Does the Bible allow divorce?
The Bible permits divorce only in cases of sexual immorality, as taught by Jesus in Matthew 19:9.
❓ Is remarriage after divorce allowed?
Remarriage is permitted if the divorce was due to biblical reasons like adultery, but it is discouraged otherwise.
❓ What does the Bible say about remarriage?
Remarriage is acceptable after divorce in certain circumstances, but believers are encouraged to seek reconciliation first.
❓ Can a divorced person remarry in the church?
Yes, if the divorce was biblically justified, the person can remarry and be accepted in the church.
Por Fernando Ortiz 
